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What hobbies did you have as a kid? If you are like most, it probably has nothing to do with what you do now as a career. For me, I find having kids is reminding me of all my past hobbies that I enjoyed so much without the stress of being "practical". As T & Lee get older, I feel lucky to be able to revisit hobbies that I once enjoyed so much as a child, like origami! This weekend, when I was on my own with the kids, I planned so many projects/activities for them. One of the projects was introducing them to #origami for the first time, one of my favorite hobbies from when I was young. They loved it (well, I should revise that - Lee is far too young for this - he found it a bit frustrating (let's be honest!), but T, did honestly love it. She takes such joy in crafts. I think she must take after me! She collected all our projects from the weekend and put them right next to her bed for safekeeping. Here is our first project of many to come! What was your favorite hobby as a child?
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Confession - I found myself continuing to do origami when they were napping - I remembered how much I loved it and didn’t want to stop 🤣 - back in my day we didn’t have YouTube - origami is even more amazing with all the easy to follow videos!! Kids don’t know how easy they have it!! .
#nycmom #artsandcraftswithkids #nyckids #perfectimperfectlife

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These two 💛💛... It's simple everyday moments like these that I want to remember. Two mornings in a row so far (the mornings when I'm with them on my own) - they have gotten up themselves and situated themselves on the couch just like this. Putting the blanket on top of them and everything ... just waiting for me to wake up and come out from the bedroom. So simple and sweet. For me, this is perfection. Happy Sunday everyone!!

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What it looks like when MOM IS IN CHARGE all weekend!!! 🥰🤣😂!!!! #timetogocrazy #lovethesekids❤️

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#missingdad 😥☹️ Sad faces of T & Lee right after talking to dad on facetime. This weekend is the first time Matt is away from home, which also means this is the first time in all my years as a parent alone with the kids for multiple days! Isn't it kind of crazy that neither of us has been away from the kids overnight until now? That's over four years of consistently being there every single night! Even though I know Matt is having a fun weekend (in warm weather!), I also know he is a bit sad about not being with the kids. It's only natural. Honestly, I am a little stressed about having the kids to myself for the first time! I took for granted that there were always two of us around. I know so many people, friends & family, whose parents travel a lot and sometimes for months at a time and for those that are single parents (so I feel silly stressing over just a weekend). I'm not stressing about being with the kids on my own anymore as I write this, we had a pretty great evening & I am confident that I have plenty of arts and crafts projects to occupy them! What this time apart is really making me realize - is that I probably miss Matt just as much, if not more than the kids. I appreciate everything he does and is. He brings so much silent support & love to every day. So, Matt - if you are reading this. THANK YOU for everything that you do (now GET HOME QUICK!! lol ... kidding... I got this! Your only job is to enjoy yourself and take this time for yourself!!) Miss you, we ♥️you and we can't wait to give you big hugs when you come home. xx, j⁠
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I also want to say that I have so much respect & 💛to all those that take care of kids on their own: always, often and/or for long periods. You are a silent superhero!!!

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My post yesterday was all about "What if ..." of the past, which we shouldn't focus our attention on. BUT, WHAT IF we used it in a positive, motivating way? Like, "What if I could have a work schedule that would allow me to pick my kids up from school" ..."What if I decluttered my space", "What if I ran the marathon," "What if I could see my kids more than an hour in the evening," "What if I didn't have to drive 2+ hours a day?", “What if today is the day I decide to go after my dreams.”, "WHAT IF I could help others design their own PERFECT IMPERFECT LIVES?" By using it this way, it is flipping the "what if" into imagining a future that aligns with what we value, giving us/me that motivation to start doing and taking action to make it a reality! ... What is your biggest "What if" right now? (Tell me in the comments!)⁠
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Happy Friday!!! ⁠
This is T and I @nycwinterlantern loving life!!⁠
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#perfectimperfectlife #nycmom #fertilitywarrior #dreambig #liveyourlife #imagine #design #liveyouradventure #lifedesigner #selfdevelopment #growth

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Do you ever wonder "What if ..." - "What if the doctors were right and I was never able to have kids ...", "What if I had moved to California after grad school instead of staying in NYC" ... "What if I stayed in finance and became an investment banker " ... "What if we never tried for a second child" ... "What if ..." - it could be endless! I often think of life as one of those #chooseyouradventure books, I loved so much as a kid, where you decide what path you are going to take and flip to that page to read on. Unlike the book, you can't go back and see how another decision plays out ... but that's probably a good thing. "What if ..." questions aren't the best because they are focusing on elements that can't be changed. Our lives are not a book. But what this does remind me of - is that there is never only one way. There are multiple options and paths to a great life. One thing can't define if we will be happy or not. I use to think that way at times when going through my fertility struggles. That hopeless feeling of .. "What if I can't have a child.." Then my life would never be fulfilled. I was wrong in those thoughts. It was through the fertility struggles that I learned there is always another way. It may not be the exact way we envision but it can lead to things we never could have imagined. Like now, for me. If you were to tell me that one day I would make my Instagram acct public and write and share my most personal thoughts with those I have never met - I would have said, "that's never going to happen, that's not me!" lol .. and it's true, that wasn't me, but it is me now and I could never have predicted it. Life leads you on paths that you can't predict. So, stop with the "what ifs ..." and focus on the now. Now is the time to Design Your Perfect Imperfect Life and I am here to do it with you. Who wants to join me?!?? Let me know!⁠ xx, j⁠
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#perfectimperfectlife #nycmom #fertilitywarrior #rainbowbaby #whatif #designingyourlife #lifedesigner #transformation #womenempowerment #selfdevelopment #lifecoaching

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Lee is a personality all his own💛. This kid cracks me up every day. Don't let him fool you, he may seem serious at first but once he becomes comfortable with you, he is a big goofball who sings to out loud, runs around wearing all of Teagan's (glittery) shoes, loves wearing my sunglasses, anything trains/cars and anything baby shark (man, that song is stuck in my head). As papa says “Lee is the coolest dude I know” & I couldn’t agree more... 🤣 btw, does anyone else has that song (baby shark) on repeat?!? 🦈 Happy Tuesday!! ⁠⠀
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(and that last picture of me with Lee and he is crying is b/c I took my sunglasses back .. haha ... life is tough!) #nycmom #toddlerlife #rainbowbaby #forevergrateful #perfectimperfectlife

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Time for a change! I went in for my annual haircut, thinking I would get a trim because it's what is comfortable. Still, if I do that with everything in life, I will never change and grow, and you know what??? Even if it doesn't go perfectly, it doesn't matter because at least you tried. Hair grows back; decisions are not final, there is never one perfect solution, and life is always changing even if you don't plan it. So, Instead of waiting for change to happen, let's take action to decide how it happens. My 2020 cut went from the standard trim to an asymmetrical bob cut because why not! I've never tried it before!! When I came home, T ran up to me and said: "oooh, I like your hair, mom!" - 💛⁠
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🖤special thanks @kristinskyolsenhair who has been cutting my hair for so many years, I don't even know - well before I had kids! ⁠
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#beforeafterhaircut #nycmom #timeforchange #asymmetricalbob #asymmetricalhair⁠
#asymmetry #bewhoyouare #nothingisperfect #perfectimperfectlife

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